
Dear Confused:
I would not be so harsh on Mr. Bober. In fact, I would have to say that is more commendable of Mr. Bober to dedicate his life and go through all of this grief that the Police of Puyallup have instilled upon his life and him to support Misty's mother in her triumph to keep Misty's memory alive and to seek on her behalf help to ignite a fire under the asses of a lazy Police Department to get justice for Misty, and in doing so he has more than demonstrated that he hasn't even forgotten my best friend Kim De Lange. He has shown more compassion and I do not even know Mr. Bober personally, but you can indeed see that he walks in the path of the lord by doing this. For we are all God's children, and we're supposed to love each other. I lost two friend's in 1988 whose lives I wonder how they would have turned out today if some black hearted individual didn't take their lives from this earth. I speak of Shannon Lynn Pease and Kimberly Ann De Lange as the friends that I have loved and lost within just a few months apart. I will pray for you Confused for your loss is also tragic, but I pray that you can find comfort and peace, and realize that there are just some people on this earth left willing to dedicate their lives to finding answers and seeking what is righteous and that is justice and closure to the matter. So, that healing can truly begin. There is not one single day that goes by where I don't wonder about things like what kind of mother would Kim have been, or would Shannon have been excited to get her driver's license? Who would my dear friends marry? What would they have done with their lives in the line of careers? And so on. I will never know what they would have bloomed into because someone out there didn't value their lives enough to let these two beautiful flowers in the garden of life grow into full blossom. The friends that I have all made in Jr. High I still contact on a regular basis for I see them as family, even back in the times of my youth Kim and Shannon were like sisters to me. I love them and I dearly miss them.
I know first hand how lazy a Police Department can be, for I have assisted them with bringing one person out of 3 to justice in a '96 murder of an elderly man in his own home in Marysville, WA. To date, the Marysville Police Dept. is satisfied with just catching one out of the three, and haven't even bothered to bring the other two to justice. Do you want to know how I know? I was supeonaed to court to testify and when I got there the prosecuting attorney turns around and tells me that they don't need me to testify yet because he already accepted a plea agreement. I asked well what about the other two people that were involved in this elderly man's murder? Do you know what their reply was, it doesn't matter. I asked if the person that I was to testify against turned in his buddies and the prosecuting attorney said he refuses to cooperate in that matter. Then I asked well aren't you going to make him cooperate, and she said no that he accepted a plea deal and that's the end to that. So by Washington State Math as long as one person fries occassionally for murder even if they didn't act alone that's perfectly fine by them. I guess they look at it as some twisted form of job security knowing that there are still killers on the loose. More lives at risk.
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